# 2003-04-19 Trees >A married man and woman are like two separate trees planted in >different holes at the same time. > >They are a permanent fixture in the landscape and together watch the >years and seasons pass. > >They are the same size and one does not hinder the growth of the other. > >Because they stand so close together they are not as subject to wind or >ice damage as a single tree is. > >The two together are more likely to survive adversity. > >They grow very close to one another but they are truly separate. > >There is space enough between them for the wind and air to pass. > >Their roots are entangled from beneath and how they are joined is >hidden from the world. > >They derive their sustenance from the same source. > >One can not be separated from the other without risking them both.